Speight Speaks To Inspire

  Guest blogger Kim Evan Reed

Look for Kimmie's book: The Kaleidoscope of Kimetry - Kimberley Evans-Reed can be purchased through Amazon.com and AuthorHouse.com Connect with her on Facebook http://facebook.com/PoeticButtafly  

If you are taking care of your man & he gives little in return - it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. There is a man who is just for you. One who will give 100% just as you'd be giving him. A man who can replenish your energy, and feed and nurture your soul. Who can be there for you. A man who, instead of making demands and being unreliable, is a steady source of love, affection, sex, warmth and fun for you.

Guest blogger Kim Evan Reed

Look for Kimmie's book: The Kaleidoscope of Kimetry - Kimberley Evans-Reed purchase a copy through Amazon.com or Authorhouse.com .  Connect with her on Facebook http://facebook.com/PoeticButtafly

The mistakes we make will in some way or another affect the people around us. For example: The Head-of-household cheats, divorce happens, & it destroys a marriage. That devastation is passed down to the kids. It affects other family & friends as well. Finances are affected & a boat-load of other things start changing. Our actions don't only affect us; it affects the people we care about.

Guest blogger Kim Evans Reed

Many people think a relationship should be 50-50. Assume personal responsibility for your marriage. Don't expect the other person to do all the work on your marriage. Both of you should work 100 percent on GIVING in the relationship instead of worrying about what you can get out of it. If BOTH people have the GIVE mentality, you've got a HUGE chance of a LIFE partnership.

 Look for Kimmie's book: The Kaleidoscope of Kimetry - Kimberley Evans-Reed
Purchased on Amazon.com or AuthorHouse.com  Connect with her on Facebook  http://facebook.com/PoeticButtafly

If I had a dollar from everyone I have counseled about relationships and marriage who said “Yeah I know marriage is hard work” I would be rich, this includes myself.

Understanding the difference between when to let go and move on but knowing when to fight for something that should fought for.

To many people walk away when things go wrong. They lean on others for support instead of looking to God for the answer and healing.

Infidelty and finance are two of the biggest reasons people run and get a divorce.  It takes forgiveness when you have been hurt and the trust is something you have to search for, it takes compassion when you want to choke them out, it takes strength to push forward when you want to give up and say “What the hell.. I didn’t sign up for this bull@#$” It takes courage to find love when you feel the love is gone, it takes a whole lot of praying when you are empty and want to walk away. It takes loving God more than anything and trusting him to heal a broken marriage!

Marriage is understanding one another with just a simple gesture, compromising, building each other, parenting, laughing and crying together. (A parnteship)

Don’t be so in love of the idea of getting marriage but be in love of the journey it will take you… the good and the bad!

From My Heart To Yours ~ Speight Speaks To Inspire~

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